Love Balm For My SpiritChild

Love Balm for my SpiritChild: Testimonies of Healing justice through Mothers' Memory- is a workshop series that celebrates revolutionary motherhood and commemorative justice.

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Love Balm For My SpiritChild at Brava Theater Center: Building the story and expanding the community – July 2014


Love Balm For My SpiritChild has been in development since January 2014. Emerging from testimonies by Bay Area mothers who have lost children to violence, the play became something of a choreoplay. Every testimony was woven together and connected to another. Each story was broken in its solitary experience and placed in conversation with the other stories. In late 2012 we had a production of the play at Eastside Arts Alliance and La Pena Cultural Center. In early 2013, we had a workshopped staged reading at SF Playhouse. With the Triangle Lab, we explored site specific performances of each testimony.  This production at Brava was a culmination of all the discoveries and developments made with this work over the last few years.

The play was directed by Edris Cooper Anifowoshe. Edris saw a rehearsal of the play in 2012 and entered into collaboration with the Love Balm project in 2013 when she directed a site specific performance of Denika Chapman’s testimony in the Bayview. Edris led actors Ayodele Nzinga, Anna Maria Luera, Dawon Davis, Cat Brooks and Lisa Evans in a collaborative process that encouraged them to rediscover and challenge the vulnerability in the stories they had been telling. From this work, as a playwright, I  witnessed something magical happen. The character of the spiritchild, played by Dawon Davis, has had many iterations. In the 2012 production, he was merely a shadow of a living young man. In the workshopped reading of the play, he was a more full shadow of himself but still not fully fleshed. In these previous performances, it was as if he was in service to the mothers telling of their stories. This felt like a solid creative choice but there was a depth and agency missing in this telling of the story. By the time the show went up at Brava, the spiritchild was his own man with wants and desires and glories to share. The play finally reached a moment in its development where the agency and body of the young spiritchild was redeemed and given back to him. The story became his by the end of the play and I then realized that that is the gospel of this work. In light of increased national visibility around police brutality, we as community members/artists/activists must remember that the ownership of these stories – the agency of the dreams of these murdered children – still belongs to them in death. On my trip to Rwanda, playwright Erik Ehn once said “The dead are with us, we are not with the dead.” The dance of the spiritchild at the end of the play taught me that even the mothers who hold the memory of their sons in public and private must surrender the independence of their child’s memory back to their spirit.


In July 2014,  Love Balm for My SpiritChild had a two week run at Brava Theater Center.  After most shows we hosted a talkback for family members whose testimonies were shared. Each family was invited to come and host a conversation about participating in The Love Balm Project and then raise funds for their family’s organizing efforts. One night we had a talkback hosted by the family of Alex Nieto, a young man who was murdered this year by local police in a park in San Francisco while eating his dinner. After the performance, the organizers representing the family took to the stage alongside myself and a couple of actors from the show. We began to speak about the creative process of collecting testimony, hosting workshops, workshoping the play and so on. This entry point led to the organizers for Alex Nieto speaking about representation of his story in the media and what ownership of story looked like in the face of police brutality. At this point in the conversation, Refugio Nieto, Alex Nieto’s father got up and came to join us on stage. This was a very special moment as Mr. Nieto hadn’t ever publically spoken about the murder of his son since he had been killed in late March. Refugio got on stage and shared his testimony. He spoke his testimony in Spanish for nearly ten minutes. We all sat in quiet witness of his story. In that moment, I felt overwhelmingly honored that we had created a piece of theatre that inspired an audience toward deep listening and witness while emboldening this man to share his story through sweat and courage. I felt so thankful to be a part of creating a space where only his telling and his voice mattered.

For more information about the story and organizing around Alex Nieto check out:


Here are a few photos from the close of the show as well!

Photos from Love Balm For My SpiritChild  at Brava Theater July 11th -20th! We close this weekend yall! Come be a witness to this show!

eham612 said: Hi Love Balm: I plan to attend this Sunday's performance at 3pm. We will bring an 11 yr old and 4 1/2 yr old, will this performance be kid friendly? Thank you.

Hi! So glad you’re coming to the show! The subject matter is rooted in community violence so it would depend on how mature your kids are and your ability to have a conversation together about the show.

Technically there are gunshots in the show.

I will say that over our other performances parents have opted to bring their kids.

Hope to see y’all there!

Here we go! We are gearing up for our culiminating run of Love Balm For My SpiritChild at BRAVA Theater Center in San Francisco. Get your tickets here and share this widely!

Here we go! We are gearing up for our culiminating run of Love Balm For My SpiritChild at BRAVA Theater Center in San Francisco. Get your tickets here and share this widely!

Beginning Again: The Love Balm Institute

Beginning again: The Love Balm Institute

By Arielle Julia Brown

The Love Balm Project is a theatre of testimony workshop series and performance based on the testimonies of mothers who have lost children to violence. The Love Balm Project currently collaborates with six mothers throughout the San Francisco Bay Area. Last summer, with support from the Triangle Lab, we hosted site specific performances in the spaces where the young men – sons of the mothers – had been murdered. These performances took place on street corners, in front of homes, at a BART station, in front of a church, on the porch of a mothers’ home and on a MUNI train platform. These performances met the communities in the spaces that haunt them and the spaces we learn to forget. Naturally, it was in these spaces that more mothers and community members began to inquire about getting involved in this work. Mothers approached me after performances, family members took my contact information to give to other mothers they knew.

This leads me to the beginning of my current investigation with The Triangle Lab. How is it that a grassroots arts collective recreates itself? How do we move in full awareness of our limited capacity as facilitators and yet be open and permeable for new knowledges, new community members, new stakeholders? What does it look like structurally to have an open space for all mothers to find and make space in their neighborhoods to tell and witness their stories? I am in deep search of what these answers could look like for the Love Balm Project. The only place I knew to begin is with the Love Balm workshop series. The workshop series features 4 workshops for mothers and community artists to gather together and perform, witness and creatively write their testimony. So I began to imagine in the middle of last year’s site specific investigation, what would it look like to have an institute to train other artists, mothers and cultural workers in how to facilitate a Love Balm Workshop series or group. In the Love Balm Institute we collectively questioned this work, reviewed and adapted the curriculum, witnessed mothers’ testimonies, explored applied theatre methods including original games, playback theatre, drama therapy and theatre of the oppressed and finally strategized about workshopn structures and funding models. The Love Balm Institute was supported by The Triangle Lab, Eastside Arts Alliance and The Akonadi Foundation. The institute took place from May 23rd – 25th in Oakland.

Several amazing cultural workers attended the institute. The cultural workers live and work with communities throughout the state of California. Please see their bios below to see what kind of work they are doing in communities already. Each of them have studied and taken their training from the institute to start planning love balm workshops and community circles for the communities they work and live in. The cultural workers will facilitate the Love Balm workshop series with mothers, LGBTQ youth, young men and women of color who have both perpetrated and survived acts of violence. Check out their projects below alongside their bios. I will continue to post updates as their projects progress. To support any of these projects directly, please donate to The Love Balm Project and note the Love Balm facilitator for whose project the donation is intended. For general donations to the Love Balm Project for our upcoming projects please note a general donation.

Our upcoming events for the Love Balm Project include:

Love Balm For My SpiritChild at Brava Theatre Center – July 11th -20th

Purchase tickets HERE


Peacebuilding and Performance Symposium – A daylong brainstorm and skillshare for arts practitioners creating work in response to violence in the Bay Area.  – August 1, 2014 – Youth Uprising

Natalie Sanchez Valle is a recent Berkeley graduate, passionate about theater and performance as a tool for creating consciousness and community. Having grown up with a migrant family in Orange County, CA. she has seen first hand, how structural racism and violence affects communities. Her work in her major of Sociology focused on conflict and violence in communities of color where she did research around what it means to come from a “peaceful” vs “violent” community. She is currently working as a teaching artist assistant at Berkeley Playhouse Theater and is the program coordinator for the Performance Colectiva at CAL. She is very grateful and excited to collaborate with the Love Balm Project and grow as a facilitator and as a theater and performance maker. 

As a Love Balm Facilitator, Natalie is interested in facilitating testimony workshops for students of color at UC Berkeley.

Last seen sporting many hats, Lakhiyia Hicks is a Liberation Arts Activist. Depending on the moment, this can mean masquerading as a spoken word poet, actress, event planner, playwright, director, program coordinator, singer, dancer, joker and you name it! Thanks to her BS in Communications (Theatre) from Northwestern University and MA in Applied Theatre Arts from USC, her ethics remain consistent (or at least try to, however.) With critically conscious art-making as means for community-building and co-creation of rehearsal spaces for real life revolutions from passivity to self-empowered subjectivity in the face of injustices, Lakhiyia exists/persists/thrives for self- and our community-liberation sake. Some–namely bell hooks–may even call that LOVE…

As a Love Balm Facilitator, Lakhiyia is interested in facilitating testimony workshops for women survivors of sexual violence in Los Angeles.

ShrutiBala Purkayastha is a teaching artist, specifically engaged in the methodologies of Theatre of the Oppressed and other Liberation Arts forms. She graduated with a M.A. degree in Applied Theatre Arts from University of Southern California’s School of Theatre.  There, she worked to develop a sustainable Theatre of the Oppressed program with Gender Justice LA, a grassroots organization to build the rights of the Transgender/Gender Non-Conforming community in Los Angeles.  She continues to work with Gender Justice LA to develop this important and innovative program ( Prior to this, Shruti developed several theatre for liberation projects in the Bay Area, including co-direction of Janaki: Daughter of the Dirt ( the most ongoing being Love Balm for My Spirit Child.  Shruti supported Arielle Brown with the initial groundwork for the production of this project through fundraising and production.  While in the Bay Area, Shruti was also an Artistic Apprentice at Brava Theatre in the San Francisco Mission District, most focused on developing educational programming, administrative support, community outreach, and artistic development. Currently, Shruti is part of a multi-media arts collective called “Freedom Harvest: Rise of the Dandelions” which supports the community organizing of the Coalition Against Sheriff Violence in L.A. Jails. Our current project, #riseofthedandelions, is an installation arts piece with spoken word, theatre, and music performances working to build the resilience of communities effected by the prison system through reclaiming history, art and music. Freedom Harvest is also the first West Coast art project to be featured in prominent east coast blog, Art in Odd Places (  Her hope with the Love Balm Project and all Liberation Arts work is to create more arts platforms that facilitate peoples’ search for liberation, healing and imagining a new world

As a Love Balm collaborator and  facilitator, Shruti is interested in supporting the infrastructures and workshops of other LA based Love Balm facilitators.

Tatiana Chaterji works at the intersection of popular education, creative expression, and healing. Trained in various modalities of applied theatre, she believes in the liberatory potential of the dramatic form to address violence and collective trauma. She cross-trains in the domains of music, capoeira, and improvisational theatre, with Kolkata, West Bengal, India, her creative home. She performs in South Asia with physical/abstract forms, inspired by drama therapy and self-revelatory theatre. As a martial artist, she leads cross-cultural athletic training for stage combat and fight choreography with youth. As a public survivor of violence, she is involved in processes of Restorative Justice that include Victim-Offender Dialogues and Victim-Offender Education Groups with incarcerated populations, and Circles of Support and Accountability on the re-entry side. She also actively organizes crime victims of color in shifting criminal justice policy toward services, intervention, and community-based solutions. From the personal to the socio-historical, Tatiana seeks systems of accountability that move beyond prisons, policing, and punitive discipline. Her background in the immigrant rights movement includes sustained presence in Boston’s Haitian community. Her undergraduate thesis in Government and Studies of Women, Gender and Sexuality (Harvard, 2008) incorporated Participatory Action Research in considering citizenship, borders, cultural belonging, political action, and transnational solidarity in the Haitian diasporic context. She currently works on-site at several high schools in the Oakland Unified School District leading classes in arts-based resistance and Theater of the Oppressed, offering counter-military recruitment resources and counter-militarism curriculum, and bridging RJ circle practice with dramatic arts. 

As a Love Balm Facilitator, Tatiana is interested in hosting love balm workshops for mothers and youth who are survivors and perpetrators of violence in the Bay Area.

Ayodele Nzinga is a multi-talented West Coast based art visionary, who in the tradition of the Black Arts Continuum uses performance as a method of inter-intra group communication. In 2000, Nzinga became the writer in residence and the resident dramaturge at The Prescott Joseph Center For Community Enhancement. This has resulted in over a decade of theater seasons, a troupe in residence, and a summer theater camp for youth. The troupe, The Lower Bottom Playaz, founded by Nzinga in 1999, is enjoying growing acclaim, while mounting, and traveling two-three productions per season. A bright and consistent energy on the cutting edge of the East Bay performance scene, Nzinga aka The WordSlanger, is a tour-de-force Spoken Word artist. Her latest published work appears in Black Magnolias and The Pan African Journal of Poetry.

As a collaborator and Love Balm facilitator, Ayodele is interested in facilitating a cross generational Love Balm workshop series for Black men. Ayodele is also a writer and actor in Love Balm For My SpiritChild.

Anna Maria Luera has spent the last 20 years as a youth worker and theatre artist. Before coming to Oakland Kids First, she worked at Streetside Stories in San Francisco as a program director and facilitated youth workshops in writing and telling autobiographical stories. Anna has facilitated arts education workshops and worked with youth at all over the Bay Area with San Jose Repertory’s Red Ladder Program, Each One Reach One and Word for Word. Anna is also a professional actress who has acted in many commercials and theatres, including Intersection for the Arts’ award winning theatre company Campo Santo.

As a collaborator and facilitator, Anna helped with curriculum development for The Love Balm Institute. Anna is also an actor in Love Balm For My SpiritChild. 

MorganJade Booker is an innovative artist who believes in bringing true experience into the theatre realm. She has self directed a Journal Life Project in the past, using only young women and their life experiences reading fun and occasionally dark journal entries in slumber party like form in front of small audiences in a trailer. She hopes to bring light to Love Balm close to where she currently resides in Southern California, and also to continue her work with girls and young women who don’t want to be quiet. (ever.) MorganJade Booker is currently in her final year at California Institute of the Arts. She will receive her Bachelors of Fine Arts in Acting in 2015.

As a Love Balm Facilitator, Morgan is interested hosting Love Balm workshops for young women of color in Los Angeles.

Anita Wills is an Activist, Writer, Speaker, and Author of 4 books, Notes and Documents of Free Persons of Color (Volumes 1 & 2), Pieces of the Quilt The Mosaic of An African American Family, and Black Minqua The Life and Times of Henry Green. She is a Community Activist and Organizer, on behalf of Mothers of Murdered Children, Prisoners’ Rights, Police and State Oppression, and the Wrongfully Convicted. She is a Certified Pre School Teacher and previously worked for Head Start and the City of Oakland.

As a collaborator and Love Balm facilitator, Anita is interested facilitating Love Balm workshops and circles for mothers in the Bay Area and nationally. Anita Wills’ testimony as the grandmother of Kerry Baxter Jr is also featured in Love Balm For My SpiritChild.

Arielle Julia Brown (Project Director/Founder) is a playwright, arts administrator and facilitator currently based in the SF Bay Area.  As a facilitator, Arielle has taught and directed performance workshops for adults and youth of all ages throughout the Bay Area with such organizations as, Intersection for the Arts, Destiny Arts Center, Streetside Stories, Guerilla Performance Group at Eastside Arts Alliance and the Alameda County Juvenile Justice Center.    Arielle is the Artistic Director of The Love Balm Project, a Bay Area theatre workshop series and performance that explores the testimonies of local mothers who have lost children to systemic violence. Workshop and performance iterations of The Love Balm Project have been presented at or in partnership with 7Stages Theatre, Theatre of Yugen, The MilkBar, Eastside Arts Alliance, La Peña Cultural Center, San Francisco Playhouse The Triangle Lab (A joint program of Intersection for the Arts and Cal Shakes) and Yerba Buena Center for the Arts. Arielle is a 2013-2014 SF Playground company playwright.  She is a 2014 Artist Investigator in residence at The Triangle Lab.  Arielle is a 2013-2014 SF Emerging Arts Professionals Programming Chair. Arielle’s work has been supported by Theatre Bay Area, The Triangle Lab ( supported in part by The James Irvine Foundation, The Andrew W. Mellon Foundation, the National Endowment for the Arts, and MetLife Foundation and Theatre Communications Group) and CalHumanities. Arielle’s theatre work is rooted in peacemaking on both local and international levels. Arielle began doing international theatre work at 7Stages theatre in Atlanta, Ga. Arielle is a core member of Theatre Without Borders.  Her  international theatre experience includes work in Senegal and East Africa. Arielle received her B.A. from Pomona College where she studied Theatre and Africana Studies.

Arielle developed the Love Balm Institute and workshop series. She is interested in how Love Balm can become a witnessing methodology that is horizontally held across communities.

Inaugural Love Balm Institute day 3

Inaugural Love Balm Institute day 2

Inaugural Love Balm Institute Day # 1

The first of our workshop and informational workshops is next week in Vermont Square on April 22nd! Join us!

The first of our workshop and informational workshops is next week in Vermont Square on April 22nd! Join us!